Compare and Contrast

Okay seeing how this blog will be about compare and contrast I thought I would compare the ways men and women cheat on each other. Now if you remember in my last blog I told you that I have been cheated on, and the way he cheated on me was just basically lying and saying that didn't do what someone told me they seen him doing. Thats Dumb rite? I mean why not be honest about it? Even though I have never cheated I do have some people in my life that have done it. What I have noticed is that when I see boys cheat, they tend to get caught way before that had a chance to enjoy it. Rather than when a girl does it she could be going with a random guy and be done with him before the boy even had a chance to look through her phone. Well thats if the girl allows that. Boys also tend to talk a lot with there friends about the girl that they are cheating with. They tell this person that another person tells this girl than before you know it Boom ! Its back to your girlfriend. Girls on the other hand can simply keep quiet about the situation and not have there boyfriends find out a thing. Do you get what I'm saying here? Boys are not that smart at cheating. They get caught and bout time they get everything cleared out with there girlfriends, the girlfriends there over. Now I'm also not saying that girls never get caught either because it is a few naive ones out there, but we do seem to get away with it a little more than guys do. Like on this one episode of Jersey Shore. I'm sure you've seen it I mean who hasn't right? It was the episode where Sammie who is Ron's ex-girlfriend, got caught seeking around with some ugly looking fella. I mean for real dude had a big nose and everything. Sammie had just previously left the house and came back and went to a club that night to supposedly meet a guy who she said was just her friend but turned out to be something a little more than that. How this relates to my topic is because her ex-boyfriend Ron had cheated on her a few months earlier in Miami and she found out about it so now she got caught but what made it so weird is nobody knew. There is wise saying my mom always tells me and it was that “you can't have your cake and eat it too.” That simply means you can't have a girlfriend or boyfriend and have another one on the side. I mean if you have one how could you deal with being with two?

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Interview on the topic cheating

1.       How do you feel about cheating?

I don’t like cheating I think it’s wrong and a waste of time.

2.       Have you ever cheated?

No I haven’t ever cheated.

3.       Do you think cheating discriminates?

No I don’t think cheating discriminates because black people have cheated and so do whites.

4.       What do you think about when you hear the word cheat?

I think of a liar.

5.       Do you think men that cheaters should be able to get another chance?

It depends on the situation like if they have a justifiable reason for doing so.

6.       Do you agree with the phrase “why not just be single and not cheat?”

Yes because it makes no sense to cheat you might as well be single and do your own thing.

7.       Can cheaters ever be trusted again?

Some cheaters I guess can be trusted again it’s just how to gain that trust back I guess.

8.       Why do you think some people cheat?

People cheat for many different reasons some could be just because there trying to get back at that person.

9.       Have you ever been cheated on?

Yes

10.   What do you think people could do to stop the cheating?

People could just be faithful and commit to that one person. Just talk about their problems a little more.

Interviewer Tiffany Pearson Interviewd by Tomecia Glenn





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Ok so I guess the blog this week is going to be just a review of my previous blogs, but instead of listing my sources and how I feel I’m just going to relate it all to a book I’m reading now. The book is called Drive me crazy, and what it’s about is this guy named driver who is a convicted who got out of jail and who was hired as a limousine driver by his boss named Wolf. Now Wolfs is suppose to be Drivers good buddy but as I continued to read I realized that driver has a thing for Wolf’s wife Lisa. Turns out that Wolf’s wife and Driver had sex in Wolf’s house and he has yet to know about it. Now how does this relate to my topic you ask? Well my blog is clearly about cheating and in this story there seems to be a lot of it. In my opinion I think that Driver is completely wrong in this situation because Wolf is his boss and has been nothing but a good friend to him and Driver just went behind his back with his wife and had sex with her. What I’m thinking is that Driver may have hurt Wolf and disrespected his home very much but the way they describe Wolf’s wife in the book is they make it sound like that almost every man would want her.  I’m not saying in any kind of way that they were right in that situation but that Driver might have been guilty of lust. That being said for all you cheaters out there who like to lie and creep don’t think that its ever okay for you to do that to your partner without any kind of hurt from that person, even if you have a good reason ! Cheating is taking the coward way out of things, and trust me you don't wanna be that coward! This book is a really good book and will teach the wrong and right way to go. This book was published July in 2004.

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Hi again ! Now I don't think I ever gave you my personal opinion on cheating and if I have, well you can just hear it again. Now cheating in my opinion is wrong and I have many reasons why. Some of them are because when cheating in a relationship, you lose alot of trust in those situations. Cheating to me is the most worthless thing ever. I mean why cheat ? Why not make it easier for you and that person and just be single. I know that you may love that person you go with but you saying you love them and than going to be with another person while still with them is not called love. Being cheated on by the one you love is hurtful. Said by the blogger Mike Hardcastle" Cheaters are motivated by their own needs. They ignore right and wrong in order to satisfy those needs. They act selfishly and think only of what they want with little concern for those they hurt. "  Along with cheating is also lying. Have you ever heard of that phrase liars cheat and cheaters lie? Well they pretty much go hand and hand. I remember I once with a  boy that lied to me about his age. Like just flat out lied about it, I mean some people lie about where they come from or how much money they have, but if you going to lie about your age to everyone than how could you be trusted with anything else? I mean what the heck is the purpose of that anyways? It aint like you was running from the law or nothing. Well shoot maybe he was...Nooo If he wasnt good at lying about his age I know he wouldnt be good at lying about running from the law. Some people today can be so selfish with life with how they lie, cheat and steal from the people they love. I know one thing, ill never be one of those people.


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